Watch Out for Wedding Scams: How to Spot and Avoid Them

Scammers love targeting wedding vendors, hoping to trick them into losing money or providing free services. If you’re in the wedding industry, here’s a quick and easy guide to spotting common scams before they waste your time, or worse, cost you money.

🚩 Red Flags That Scream “Scam”

1️⃣ They Use the Word “Kindly”

If an inquiry asks you to "kindly send pricing", "kindly confirm availability", or anything similar, run! Scammers overseas were taught that “kindly” sounds polite and professional, but in reality, no real client ever speaks like that.

2️⃣ They Offer to Overpay You

A classic scam: they send you a check for more than your rate and ask you to send the extra money to someone else (a “planner,” “driver,” or “vendor”). The check will bounce, and you’ll be out of whatever money you sent. If anyone insists on overpaying you and having you handle their other payments, it’s 100% a scam.

3️⃣ They Refuse to Talk on the Phone

Legit couples want to communicate with their vendors. If they refuse a phone call or video chat and only want to email or text, it’s a major red flag. Scammers avoid live conversations because they don’t want to reveal their true identity.

4️⃣ They Push to Book Immediately—No Questions Asked

If someone wants to book your highest package ASAP without asking about your style, experience, or availability, be suspicious. Most couples want to know they’re hiring the right vendor, not just throwing money at a stranger.

5️⃣ Their Event Details Are Vague or "Flexible"

They might say their wedding date is “flexible” or they haven’t picked a venue yet, however they’re in a hurry to book you. While some couples might be early in planning, scammers intentionally keep details vague to avoid sounding fake.

❌ What to Do If You Suspect a Scam

✔️ Don’t engage. Delete the email and move on.
✔️ Never accept overpayments. If someone overpays you and asks for money back, refuse.
✔️ Don’t click on strange links. Some scammers use phishing links to steal your info.
✔️ If in doubt, request a call. A real couple will be happy to chat.

Scammers are out there, but knowing the warning signs will keep you protected.